Most of the people are like mirrors in dealing with others. The 80-20 rule also applies here. Only 10% people are really and unconditionally very good and 10% people very bad in the same way. These people generally do not waver or veer towards the other side of the fence by external stimulants. But the rest 80% are like mirrors and are only frustrated, doubtful or bitter when they deal badly with people, not because they are of the “type”. Everybody has to bear his own cross and in the process, mostly the people with lesser mental strength or faculty, even forget to smile at the complete strangers on the street. The insecurity associated with our lives is the key then as I have seen most people in UK, considered a reserved race in these things, doing it in the streets? Partly maybe, but the rest is upbringing and mental mould. The most important thing is that you behave nicely with people and they will do that, in 80% of the cases. You be very good to them and the same set will just be that to you. People generally expect very less from other people, as they are normally tuned in our society, and when they get very good and genuinely nice behavior, particularly the people who do not get much respect from other people, will come out that extra mile to be even more nice to you. This is my lifetime experience.
Friday, January 2, 2009
Other people’s reaction is mirroring yours ?
Most of the people are like mirrors in dealing with others. The 80-20 rule also applies here. Only 10% people are really and unconditionally very good and 10% people very bad in the same way. These people generally do not waver or veer towards the other side of the fence by external stimulants. But the rest 80% are like mirrors and are only frustrated, doubtful or bitter when they deal badly with people, not because they are of the “type”. Everybody has to bear his own cross and in the process, mostly the people with lesser mental strength or faculty, even forget to smile at the complete strangers on the street. The insecurity associated with our lives is the key then as I have seen most people in UK, considered a reserved race in these things, doing it in the streets? Partly maybe, but the rest is upbringing and mental mould. The most important thing is that you behave nicely with people and they will do that, in 80% of the cases. You be very good to them and the same set will just be that to you. People generally expect very less from other people, as they are normally tuned in our society, and when they get very good and genuinely nice behavior, particularly the people who do not get much respect from other people, will come out that extra mile to be even more nice to you. This is my lifetime experience.
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