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The bloody diamond

The bloody diamond
This is life

Welcome to the imperfect world

Welcome to the super-real world where survival comes first, much before the high alter preachings of excellence (for others only). So if you are the one who does not have to survive, or does not care - you have a choice not to remain here.

For others, please have a seat and take cover - here anything can happen anytime and you may just become a faceless co-lateral damage. Everything here is related to life and death, pains and agonies, treacheries and conspiracies, cons and deceit, treason and betrayals, despair and darkness - we just do not live in any perfect world.

BUT that is why the blog is here at all - let there be light. It aspires to show the way, to train myself and my friends in the defense against the dark arts. It is also related to hope and courage, renunciation and redemption, indomitable will and lust for life - the immortal battle with the dark side. Red flag fluttering in the gentle wind, all hands on deck, war cries in the air, daggers drawn, no quarters given nor asked, no hostages taken - we must fight till the last man standing

Rest assured, you are in good hands. These hands, with all the talents or the lack of them, with all the liveliness and the inner brooding, with the over-sized ego and the extra-ordinary humility, with all the goodness and the devilish designs - have been war veterans - they have fought for decades in the battle of survival.

Happy surviving




Love in blood

Love in blood

The inescapable war within

It is the curse of the human that we are constantly at wars. War with the Government, society, family, spouse, children, Boss, peer, friends, neighbours. Some of these are overt, some crude, some plain enmity but some are subtle, some barely palpable, some low key and guerilla types, some are cold as razors, some are dry like the funeral pyres.

Most of these cannot be own with force or when you try for winning - sometimes you have to lose to win them. Some are more like trials than wars, they never show the faces, never let you see their pimples, just shadows, the kafkaesque faceless executioners take over.

For all these, we need inner strength, we need strategies. Sometimes the objective is survival, sometimes it's plain escape from the random blades, sometimes the heady delight of beheading the enemy. Sometimes it is sheer joy to be alive, sometimes happiness comes over from a walkover or just a walkaway, without even a careless looking back. Often it is a mixed feeling - the agony, the ecstasy, the brutal orgasm or a complete disenchanted detachment - a shelter in the NOW. They sometimes need courage, need cunning finesse, sometimes ruthless lack of values of a son-of-the-bitch, sometimes daring flamboyant recklessness, maybe even stoic nonchalance. But the best of the best generals in the wars of life, always win without unnecessary bloodshed or even none of it at all.

But the most painful and fearful of all these wars are the ones with oneself. It could be a conflict between mind and heart or even the soul that holds our values dear. And this is one war that always hurts, always wounds, always bleeds one dry, always keeps one awake through the fearful night with the shadows of the beautiful lacey curtains blowing in the gentle wind and making shadows of our most intimate fears within. It is like a nation under seize, and alas, there is no escape. When you will kill yourself softly, no survival strategy ever works.



Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Something about the state of Denmark – Tribute to another Gandhi

While trying to remain non-political, I watch all political events very closely as the environmental analysis is vital for survival strategy. Many people have asked me, an irritant actually, which party I vote for. I have a standard answer, “Opposition. Even if The Goat party was there, it would have been the same. To live in a democracy, you must always try to strengthen the opposition”. Freedom, I repeat, is the most important asset in a man’s life.

Any sane person in west Bengal will agree that for the health of the democracy and public interest, the Government should be changed at least once after a long long 32 years. Though I have a deep regard for the Chief Minister personally, in spite of his some arrogant remarks, I understand that he is not his party and definitely not the democracy which should be the supreme. With the arrogant anti-people Mafiosi style highly organized squeeze apparatus that is often run by the middle level leaders controlled at the top end, if the opposition was not fighting along against all odds, by this time we would have to get up in the morning and run to the queue in front of the “local committee” for permission to brush my teeth or to go to the loo.

It’s lovely that a single-point leadership-based and inconsistent Trinamool, which has some deep malady in it’s roots that they have started correcting of late, e.g. the lack of second line and presentable leaders and the lack of voice of all except Didi, whose guts and courage I revere, has own this round of election and has thrown off the Front in a disarray that will surely and eventually pave the way for a complete change. But Trinamool should as well understand that the votes were mostly negative rather than positive and if they try to run in the same demon alley, we will also fight that one day. Their political and unqualified backing of the hawkers and the “Kata tel”-run abusive hellish unlicensed autos are signs of the deeper maladies than is apparent from the politically correct lifestyle of our mercurial Didi. I am not sure that they have to vision or capability as of now to put the rail back in track in the most important areas of education, health, environment and industry.

In this “Oasis of peace”, where we the people have been caught between the devil and the deep sea, I have the deepest reverence for one person, our Governor Shri Gopal K Gandhi. In my experience of the last several years, he is the archetype of attitude that I have ever dreamt to inculcate in my students. Even if they can show a small fraction of it, my job will be considered well done. Gandhi, though the holder of a constitutional post and is as such bound by the protocols and codes of conducts, signifies all that is good, sacred and humane. He has defied protocol several times to open his mouth and protest, has shown remarkable statesmanship in breaking the political deadlocks, has shown the humane face of the state in gory and despicable situations which often forced the Government’s hand into more of restraint, and he has shown remarkable leadership and humility in all these uncertain times. He has avoided conflict and confrontation. He has remained silent against the despicable attacks on him when he has protested even more despicable events. He has waited for reasons to prevail.

He has a simple philosophy of life, it seems. He always looks for harmony, always look for situations that is a win win for everybody. It is the fire – the passion for human values that makes the difference in anything you actually do or want in life. My salute to him. I was never into hero-worshipping, but I am a Value and attitude coach and a strategist too. It’s a recurrent dream for me that one day, one day I will be able to meet the man, a combination of grace and elegance, sitting behind the constitutional wall, and shake hands.

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