Survive from the Complex people

Every sacrifice is a gift and of course, every gift is a sacrifice. Some people, however rare and near-extinct, have made this their basic nature, alas, to the consternation of the complex people, who are in an unending search of issues, big or small, to pounce on others.

In the macabre theater of the absurd, even a perfectly innocent joke, even in a surrounding which is traditionally and ritually meant for a light atmosphere, is taken up later to stick the “other side”, which is the basic paradigm of complex people. They always try to draw up the sides, notwithstanding the intent of those people or the long-term needs and views. They will twist and turn, cut and slash, trim and slime – almost any words or issues. The issues and events do not necessarily have to be real, even a hint of content is enough, the gentlemanly intent is not required, Thank you.

The biggest victims are generally the people who are the most protected, because in these cases, they are completely out of tune of how to handle these people, who are hostile without any real reasons, they defy all logic to be so. Giving is also not a solution. The more you give, they will make a momentary pause, and attack from that very angle, saying the things could have been even better. They have an insensible urge to dominate, particularly over all people who are weak and meek, as they do not really possess the real power that can sword even the powerful.

Ignoring them is also not another solution, because they usually choose the preys among the people who cannot do that, as most other people who can afford or have enough power on themselves, do just that and do it rudely enough to be excused thence. They should be kept at a distance though, as far as practicable. Because complex people are not necessarily bad, they are complex and love to act mean. This may happen even in a family full of people who do not care for such acts. They enjoy their meanness and the fact that for some people, this comes as a heart-breaking fact, particularly those who try to go beyond their capacity or limits to make these people happy, for some reason or the other, and make a good relationship with them.

The basic strategy should be to bear, and do it silently. No empire, however mighty and ruthless, has been able to go down the history as unchallenged ever. The wheel of time has not stopped for anyone. They should be own over, with time, or vanquished, also with patience. Even a mad person get back his senses sometimes, these are only complex people.

The only times you should react, keeping the standards of weights and measures, sternly - firmly and forcefully, are the times when the complex tend to turn to devious, that is, those things will be uttered not for an immediate gain and fun of running the knife, but with a long term objective of the scalpel. These things are done to establish a ground, which once established by the absentee vote of yours, can lead to an advantage ground in a larger canvas of shrewd political games. the stake can be anything, proving you a semi-despot to a long pending issue about the property division. Here you must break the point and throw the dish. "Deny the allegation and defy the alligator" (Shall we tell the President ?).